Life is not that hard….go easy

In a split second it was gone. I realized I was helpless. It’s like someone dying in front of you & you just can’t do anything about it. Yes, it’s exactly the same feeling when I had lost my first job. Sudden failure is like a crash in the heaven. With that sudden news I was too shattered to deal with it. But eventually I got over it. How that’s the big question?

Years later I understood it was not the intervention of an extra terrestrial phenomena or a divine power that helped me to get through it. It was my inner spirit that had motivated to get over it. I was too tired to be unhappy for long. So one fine morning I called it off, I said to myself- enough is enough, now go shopping.

It’s not that I was broke after losing the job. But about two and half years I got close to my colleagues so much so that it was becoming too tough to digest the harsh reality. My parents were always there to support. But what good can it be if you don’t want to fight back for yourself.

Then I came out as a champion after learning to deal with it through self motivation.  Thinking what had helped me to accomplish this? I came into terms with few things those are as follows:-

1.       Don’t unnecessarily complicate your life, take it easy.

.Be extremely professional at workplace. Accept that situations may arise such that you may not stay there for lifetime.

3.       Change is good, so make necessary changes within you. Don’t be so stuck with one thing. Most importantly, find peace within.

4.       And the final wake up call for all those who find it hard to handle stress- cut your sorry state and be happy anyways.